Zharphyn is a computer software developer with over 40 years experience.  He is slowly recovering from an abusive marriage to a narcissist, and, with the encouragement of his therapist, is attempting to start writing about the abuse that he suffered during the marriage, and the challenges he continues to face attempting to co-parent with his ex-wife.

He currently resides in a suburb of Vancouver, BC with his partner, Penny the hyperactive puppy, and Crush the red eared slider. Together they share parental responsibilities with Zharphyn’s 4 children from his previous marriage.